Life as a family is filled with joys and challenges. There are days of laughter and peace, and then there are days of stress, conflict, and difficulty. As Christian families, we must learn to live in the two-sided reality of our faith—knowing that we are completely accepted by Christ while also growing to become more like Him.
Romans 5:1-2 beautifully illustrates this truth:
“Therefore, since we have been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ. Through him we have also obtained access by faith into this grace in which we stand, and we rejoice in hope of the glory of God.” (Romans 5:1-2, ESV)
These verses remind us that, as believers, we have been justified by faith. We have peace with God and access to His grace. Living in the Grace and Peace of Christ is possible. Yet, even though we have this secure position, we still experience struggles and trials that help us grow. Understanding this balance can help families navigate the highs and lows of life with faith, hope, and perseverance.
1. The Two Sides of Christian Life in the Family
As parents and children, we experience both the joy of belonging to Christ and the struggles of daily life. Paul reminds us that while we have been made right with God, we are also in the process of growing in Him.
• We Have the Status of Kings but the Duties of Servants
In Christ, we are royalty—children of God, heirs of His kingdom (Galatians 4:7). Yet, we are also called to serve one another in love (Galatians 5:13). In a family, this means parents leading with humility and children learning obedience and respect. It means serving each other even when we don’t feel like it. Jesus Himself, though the King of Kings, washed His disciples’ feet as an example of servant-hearted love (John 13:14-15).
• We Have the Presence of Christ but the Pressure of Sin
Though Jesus dwells in us through the Holy Spirit, we still struggle with sin. Family life is a place where our weaknesses and sins often become most evident—whether in impatience, selfishness, or misunderstandings. But instead of becoming discouraged, we should remember that God is working in us, shaping us to be more like Christ (Philippians 1:6).
• We Have Peace with God but Still Face Problems
While we have peace with God, life is not free from trials. Raising children, dealing with financial struggles, or working through conflicts can test our faith. However, God often uses these challenges to grow our character (James 1:2-4). Rather than seeing problems as obstacles, we should view them as opportunities to trust in God and teach our children how to rely on Him.
2. Standing in God’s Grace as a Family
Romans 5:2 reminds us that we “have also obtained access by faith into this grace in which we stand.” What does it mean for a family to stand in grace?
• Grace Means We Are Secure in Christ
God’s grace is the foundation of our faith. As parents, we should remind our children that they are loved and accepted by God, not because of their performance, but because of His grace (Ephesians 2:8-9). This helps cultivate a home of security, where children can grow in their faith without fear of rejection.
• Grace Helps Us Extend Forgiveness
Just as God has forgiven us, we must forgive one another (Colossians 3:13). Families are bound to experience conflicts, but grace enables us to offer patience and understanding instead of anger and resentment. Teaching children about forgiveness models the love of Christ in a practical way.
• Grace Gives Us Strength to Endure Trials
Parenting is exhausting. Marriage takes work. Sibling relationships can be frustrating. But God’s grace gives us strength to endure. As Paul wrote, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” (2 Corinthians 12:9). Families that rely on God’s grace will find the strength to keep loving and serving even when life is hard.
3. Rejoicing in the Hope of the Glory of God
Paul concludes this section by saying that we “rejoice in the hope of the glory of God.” What does this mean for families?
• Our Hope is in God’s Faithfulness
No matter what struggles our family faces, we can have hope because God is faithful. He has promised to complete the work He started in us (Philippians 1:6). When raising children feels overwhelming, or when marriages go through difficult seasons, we can hold onto the promise that God is at work.
• Our Hope is in Future Glory
This world is not our final home. One day, we will see God’s full glory and be free from sin and suffering (Revelation 21:4). Teaching our children about heaven gives them an eternal perspective—helping them live for God rather than for temporary pleasures.
• Our Hope Gives Us Joy Even in Trials
A family that rejoices in hope is one that trusts God in all circumstances. Even in hardship, we can teach our children to find joy in the Lord (Nehemiah 8:10). Worshiping together, praying as a family, and reminding each other of God’s promises helps cultivate this joyful hope.
4. Practical Ways to Live Out This Truth in the Family
1. Start Each Day with Prayer and Scripture
Set aside time each morning to pray and read the Bible as a family. Even a short devotion can remind everyone that they stand in God’s grace.
2. Model Grace in Your Home
Show patience, kindness, and forgiveness to your spouse and children. When mistakes happen, use them as opportunities to teach about God’s grace.
3. Encourage One Another with Hope
When facing difficulties, remind each other of God’s promises. Share testimonies of how God has worked in the past and trust Him for the future.
4. Serve One Another with Love
Just as Christ served us, look for ways to serve within your family. Simple acts of kindness—helping with chores, writing encouraging notes, or listening with patience—demonstrate Christ’s love.
5. Rejoice Together
Celebrate answered prayers, spiritual growth, and everyday blessings. Rejoicing together strengthens faith and reminds everyone of God’s goodness.
Living in the Grace and Peace of Christ - Walking in Peace, Grace, and Hope as a Family
Romans 5:1-2 reminds us that we are justified by faith, have peace with God, and stand in His grace. Though we face struggles, we can rejoice in the hope of God’s glory. As families, we must learn to live in this balance—secure in Christ yet continually growing in Him.
By embracing God’s grace, extending forgiveness, and trusting in His promises, we can create a home filled with His peace and love. No matter what challenges come, we can stand firm in the truth that God is with us, guiding and strengthening us every step of the way.
Let us press on as families, trusting in the One who has justified us, sustained us, and promised us eternal hope.
“May the Lord give strength to His people! May the Lord bless His people with peace!” (Psalm 29:11, ESV)
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